Advice to my sons

Dear sons,

1 – Go do what the Forces of the Universe are calling you to do. Follow your bliss. By doing so, you will be happy. By being happy you will make others happy. And by making others happy you will be giving the greatest gift anyone can give.

2 – Dream and manifest. Learn how to dream and how to manifest your dreams. Use your imagination and take time everyday to visualize yourself living the life of your dreams. Visualize and feel how good it feels.

3 – Believe in synchronicities. Believe that as long as you are being true to yourself and following your bliss, your dreams will easily come true. You will achieve what you want with minimum effort. Helpers will show up to help you. Everything you need will reveal itself to you spontaneously, almost magically.

4 – Be authentic. Be who you are. Be who you are meant to be. Be your own unique self. That’s why you are here. That’s your job. That’s your main job. That’s your only job. That’s how you bring your best contribution to the world: by being yourself… by being the best possible version of yourself. Be yourself.

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5 – Don’t be too harsh on yourself. Don’t beat yourself down. Don’t go crazy trying to be perfect, trying to be someone other than yourself; you will fail and feel inadequate. Be gentle with yourself. Love yourself. Realize that you are perfect, accomplished, and successful already. Just allow this radiant being to manifest itself. The moment you accept yourself, rejoice with your own self, and allow yourself to be who you really are, you become the gift that only you can give to the world. Just be true to yourself. Be yourself.

6 – Be in love with yourself. Be in a love affair with yourself. There’s nothing selfish about it. One of the most unselfish things you can do is to love yourself, because it is by loving yourself that you will craft the best gift you can give to the world: your truest self, your best self, your magnificent presence. Love yourself. Be yourself.

7 – Don’t try desperately to fit in. Don’t try to please others all the time. Don’t be concerned with what others may think of you. Don’t live your life trying to fulfill someone else’s expectations.  Don’t submit yourself to other people’s judgments. Don’t put yourself on trial, in situations where you are constantly judging yourself and feeling that you are being judged by others. Don’t allow your mood to be dictated by the opinions others may have of you, by what others say about you. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone, except yourself. Remember that you are immensely valuable. Don’t try to be someone else just to please others. It’s impossible to be someone other than yourself. Your job is to be the grandest version of yourself. Be the grandest version of yourself.

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8 – Enjoy life. Do the things that make you feel good. Have fun. Laugh. Surround yourself with positive, optimistic, and uplifting individuals who accept you as you are, who not only allow, but who encourage you to be yourself. Be yourself.

9 – Be grateful and be happy. Take time everyday to recognize all the many good things that you already have. Be thankful and be happy. Don’t believe that you have to compete all the time. Actually, you don’t have to compete. Period. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone. You don’t have to get where anyone else has gotten, or have what someone else has acquired. You only have to challenge yourself, go beyond your own self-imposed limitations, and be the best version of yourself. In order to do so, you don’t have to do anything; you just have to be. That’s all. Be yourself. Let me repeat this: you don’t have to do anything; you just have to be yourself. That’s all, and it is enough. Without any judgment, let yourself be who you are and who you are meant to be… totally, completely, without restricting yourself. Don’t be the main inhibitor of your own self. You are unique and your uniqueness is your great gift to the world. Your only job in this life is to be yourself, and to see perfection in yourself and in the entire Universe. That is all. Be yourself. Be your whole self. Be your best self.

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I love you.

I loved, love, and will love you always and forever.

I loved you in the past, I love you now, and will love you in the future.

I will love you anywhere we may be.

Love ties us together. We are inseparable. My love for you keeps growing… “To infinity and beyond!”

Papai

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